Praise for The Tragedy Test
“I have no doubt that readers will be better able to surmount their own misfortunes because of the example Rabbi Agler has set.”
—Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People
I confess that at first, I was hesitant to review this book because the author mentions me in the acknowledgements and thanks me generously for having made a few minor suggestions. But then I realized that if I did not review this book, I would be depriving many readers of a book that they need in order to help them get through the crises in their lives, and that I had no moral right to do that.
So let me recommend this book---especially to those wounded souls who have been struck down by a crippling blow to themselves or to someone whom they love---a blow that has shaken their faith and that has made them question the religious beliefs that they were taught in their childhood.
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Review from Elizabeth Ravit at Amazon—5 stars
A journey from life tragedy to acceptance
This book is wonderfully written and deals primarily with the author's journey after the tragic lose of his twenty-six year old daughter. The reader is provided with meaningful and helpful tools that deal with coping and healing after a tragic life event. Rabbi Agler provides a challenging and meaningful discussion that integrates nature, science, religion, and philosophy as he faced this life changing experience. The book describes ways and methods that support self-growth in ways that contribute to society. I highly recommend this book.
Rabbi Richard Agler has used the heartbreaking experience of the loss of his beloved daughter to reexamine his concept of God and God's role in the life of the individual. This understanding challenges the concept of a personal God who hears and responds to our prayers, but doesn't stop tragedy. This book speaks to people of all faiths open to understanding God in a new way. A deeply thoughtful and meaningful read.
From Rich at Amazon—A compelling, understanding and singular memoir of loss and acceptance—5 stars
Rabbi Richard Agler has turned his grief at the tragic accidental death of his beloved 26-year-old-daughter into a quest for meaning, understanding, and a faith in which God could levy such a senseless devastation on her and her family in his thoughtful and emotionally thorough book, THE TRAGEDY TEST. Considering questions both theological and practical, personal and universal, biblical and secular, he compellingly and with much original thought covers the journey from challenge to acceptance, in a work that serves both as a touching memoir and guide for others. He is an expert on deconstructing and explaining complex teachings and ideas, and gets help along the way from Maimonides, the book of Ecclesiastes, Snoopy, Charlie Brown, Linus, and former St. Louis Cardinals manager Tony LaRussa.
I truly hope you never NEED to open this book. But if and when you do, there is a tremendous amount you will learn from it.
Review from Rabbi Moshe Tom Heyn at Goodreads.com—5 stars
I am fortunate to have not suffered a loss anywhere close to what Rabbi Agler describes in these pages. Yet, I am keenly aware that the possibility is never far away, from one day to the next. And so, as a rabbi and a student of religion and philosophy, I have known that if I WERE to suffer such a devastating loss, whatever theology I choose to embrace would have to pass the "tragedy test."
I never thought about it in precisely those terms, which is why I am grateful to Rabbi Agler for reflecting on his experience so deeply and articulating it so clearly. It is a rare combination of skills that the writer possesses along with his firsthand experience of walking "through the valley of the shadow of death" that could result in such a valuable guide for others, sparing us from the agonizing process he went through to produce it.
I recommend buying this relatively short book and reading it slowly, keeping it within reach even long after reading it, to absorb its message. It is likely to transform any "pie-in-the-sky" wishful thinking we may still cling to into a more compassionate and spiritually-oriented realism. This inner transformation must necessarily bring about positive changes in one's mood, outlook, relationships and virtually every aspect of one's life and work. I have already begun to notice these changes in myself. Thank you, Rabbi Agler!
Upon finishing Rabbi Agler’s beautifully written and sometimes painfully honest book,“The Tragedy Test”, I was extremely moved. Rabbi Agler definitely expanded my perceptions about life and death.
This brilliant book speaks through a Jewish perspective and yet it speaks in a very personal dialogue to all who have suffered a loss.
I think that probably means all of us.
Rabbi Agler honors all of us in all of our own struggles through life and yet he also offers us clear, step by step guidance on a path through them that he has traveled himself.
This book is a pure gem. I’m already thinking of who in my life I would like to buy it for...
Thank you Rabbi, for your sharing of such an unfathomable journey.
And thank you for your incredible insights every step of the way.
May you be blessed and may this book being to others some of the blessings it has already brought to me.
Cantor Jan Sheer
Temple Beth Emet
Cooper City, FL
Review from David Feder at Amazon.com—5 stars
When faith is shaken…
Rabbi Richard Agler offers thoughtful, frank, and compassionately accessible guidance while helping us navigate an evolving understanding of God in the face of life’s inevitable and world-shaking experiences. Highly recommended for everyone.
Review from Aley Sheer at Goodreads.com—5 stars
I have just finished reading the Tragedy Test. It is easily one of the best books I have ever read. The book is an illumination… bringing great insight and understanding for all who struggle with tragedy and with God… and for those who do not.
The Tragedy Test is “When Bad Things Happen To Good People“ meets “Man’s Search For Meaning“. It is at the same time scholarly and spiritual… punctuated with commentary from Maimonides, Spinoza, Einstein and other sources, this Rabbinic treatise will be very helpful to Jews and to anyone else in the human condition.
The Tragedy Test leaves a host of myths, clichés and superstitions punctured in its wake. It untwists theology for a deepened clarity to help us meet the challenges of love, loss, life and faith. This book is a must read... insightful, moving, helpful and important.
Review from Dr. Jan and Steve Hartz at Amazon.com—5 stars
Drawing upon the experience of his tragic loss of his daughter and his many years as a congregational rabbi, Rabbi Agler has produced a well written book that outlines in a concise way the theological issues that tragedy presents. Whatever one’s views on faith may be, this provocative and inspiring book will enable everyone to deal in a more effective and compassionate way with the tragedies with which life confronts all of us in different ways.
Review from Rev. Terry Hudson on Goodreads.com—5 stars
This book is a moving tribute to the author's daughter, and a very worthwhile read. I agree with the author's estimate about the mindless platitudes that well-meaning people offer in times of loss.
I was particularly fascinated by the second half of the book on the nature of God as Law and Spirit. I agree that God’s spirit embodies kindness, justice and love. I also feel that prayer changes our behavior. I have long appreciated the words of a Unitarian minister: “Prayer doesn’t change things. Prayer changes people, and people change things.”
I share the author's view that although the world can be a dangerous place, it is also benevolent. Our role is to live in trust and love rather than in fear. Nevertheless..
From Dorothy Herman, RJE at Amazon.com—5 stars
After a tragedy occurs, the accidental death of a beloved daughter, Rabbi Agler takes the reader along as he searches for a concept of God that can resonate with his understanding of why this has happened. While he explores traditional Jewish beliefs, the reader is challenged to investigate his/her own beliefs. He writes of order in the universe, a personal God, good and evil. The Tragedy Test should be read slowly, taking time to wrestle with the concepts, alone or with others. Throughout the book basic Jewish values permeate the narrative: living in the spirit of goodness, wisdom, compassion, justice, love, repairing the world, and doing acts of kindness.
Review from Diana Sweeney on Amazon—5 stars
This book has been very helpful for my family in understanding our loss of one of the youngest member of the family.
Review from Charles Brown of Gastonia, NC
Rabbi Agler takes an honest, fearless look at our understanding of God and the challenges of maintaining faith when we experience personal loss. It is a moving and deeply personal meditation on grief and dealing with death that readers will be thinking about long after they have finished The Tragedy Test.
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